Mind of a Diva

How many people seek or even want to run into their exes? I don’t have experience with seeing an ex again because in my mind when a relationship ends that’s usually it for me. I try to avoid seeing my exes in any way that I can because I don’t see a reason to continue [...]

Love is expressed in many different ways.  Many times, especially when it comes to relationships, we only acknowledge love in a romantic sense.  Love is present anytime we’ve developed a close connection with someone we encounter.  It’s beautiful in every form; however, we should always be careful of the people we allow into that realm [...]

A weeks ago my coworker and I had lunch together and she filled me in on the last news on her relationship. She has just started seeing a guy that she met through a mutual friend around the end of October and beginning of November. She’s fallen hard for this guy, everyone that knows her [...]

Several months ago one of our readers sent in a question to our Diva’s Wanna Know series to ask our panel if men look consciously or subconsciously for characteristics of their mothers in the women they date. After posing this question for the men to answer, it’s been on my mind if women do the [...]

I want you to think about how much you’re worth. Do you believe that you deserve to be happy, have a healthy relationship, or be with someone who cares for you and knows your worth? If we know that we deserve the very best then why are we constantly selling ourselves short? I’m still reading [...]

Why do we expect people to be able to read our minds without ever communicating our problem? We assume that the people we have around us should know our needs because of the relationships we have with them. Is it fair to get upset with our family and friends for not leaving up to our [...]

One of my favorite sayings is this; we live our lives with two faces, the one that we want the world to see and the one that we hide. When it comes to dating, we hide the our other side in fear of rejection and how the other person will see us. So we control [...]

Does anyone know what the real definition of what the word ‘wifey’ really means? The term has been used in various ways, and while the meaning seems to be under debate I wonder if the reason is because we see this as a title. Many of us want to hold a special place or a [...]

Have you ever realized that discussing an issue with a guy compared to discussing the same issue women are two completely can turn out to be different conversations? With a guy they will listen then instantly try to solve the problem, where as with a woman she will go through everything involved. Why do men [...]

The thing about relationships is that it’s all about timing; when to have that first kiss, say I love you, and meet the other person’s family. An indicator that the relationship is headed in the right direction is meet the other person’s family and friends. It proves that things are serious, but what if that [...]