Blinded by Love
When we are in a relationship and have a boyfriend or girlfriend people can easily remove themselves from their life. They will stop being around other people just to be with that person. There comes a time to refrain from being a couple.
My first boyfriend and I were almost inseparable when we got together. We went everywhere and if we weren’t together then we were on the phone. This was an everyday thing for us, but after the new relationship feeling wore off we started to get annoyed about being around each other.
I felt like he was always in my space and the little things that he did would annoy me to the point where I would get angry. He was also feeling the same way so we talked about it and came to the conclusion that we couldn’t be together all the time. So then we would have our couple time and then time for everything else.
A couple that spends every minute together is eventually going to get burnt out with seeing that person. A person has to schedule time to do their thing outside of the relationship. Like my friend says, “You have to watch it when you enter a relationship- it’s easy to get catch up, kidnapped, and have people wondering what happened to you.”