Dating

Inside His World

The thing about relationships is that it’s all about timing; when to have that first kiss, say I love you, and meet the other person’s family. An indicator that the relationship is headed in the right direction is meet the other person’s family and friends. It proves that things are serious, but what if that hasn’t happened yet? At what point should we start worrying if we haven’t been introduced to the people in his world?

At work one of  my coworkers has been telling me about this guy that she’s been dating for almost a year. She really likes him and talks about how she thinks that their relationship could become something long-term. She has introduced him to her family and friends and even everyone at work. However, she hasn’t met any of his friends and family. So now she’s wondering why he hasn’t and if he feels for her the same way she feels about him.

Meeting the people who are close to a guy is a big step because it’s his way of bringing his girlfriend into the circle. Not only does it show that he cares about the woman, but also about the relationship and the direction that it’s headed. While there isn’t an exact time that this should happen, it does provide insight on who the other person feels about things based on if you’ve met the people close to him.

The only advice I could give my coworker is to talk to her boyfriend and tell him her concerns and feelings. If she doesn’t feel as though she’s being integrated into his world then she has to tell him, because both people have to do that for it to grow. Otherwise, they will always be on the outside looking in.

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5 Responses to “Inside His World”

  1. On May 28, 2012 at 11:44 pm Rod Stu responded with... #

    Well he just stinks. LOL! seriously.

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    • On May 29, 2012 at 12:34 am jenndiva responded with... #

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  2. On August 27, 2012 at 10:48 am Dan Tres Omi responded with... #

    If she has to ask him or convince him to do that… She might want to move on

    • On July 23, 2013 at 12:21 pm jenndiva responded with... #

      That’s some great advice. A person shouldn’t have to ask another person to let them into their lives and introduce them to their circle. I’m one that believes a person’s actions speak louder than their words. So if it was me there actions would say a lot.

  3. On July 3, 2013 at 4:38 pm KingXero responded with... #

    From the replies and from reading this blog, it all seems to be on one person needs and is SHE SHE SHE, there are lots of reasons guy’s don’t wanna introduce there girlfriend to meet there friends/family, one reason a guy doesn’t wanna introduce his girl to his friends is because of maturity of his friends, seen it plenty of times with my friends one of my friends will bring a girl around us and introduce us to her and then he becomes the butt of the jokes all night, such as why is a pretty girl like you with him ect, far as family goes that’s a iffy one, just because you been dating a year means nothing a year is nothing in a relationship and people need to quit making it seem like it is, introducing a girl/guy to family is a pretty big step and seeing as this guy hasn’t or offered say’s that he doesn’t feel like it’s been long enough, or maybe he feels he doesn’t know her well enough, using the excuse they been dating a year is pretty bad it shows that she is trying to force her way into his circle doing that is extremely bad.

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