Relationships

Learning to Accept Rejection

This week I was hanging out with the guys and one of them received a message from a girl he has been talking to. He explained to use what is gong on with them, and then he asked for me for my opinion. Why is it hard for some women to accept rejection?

The girl who is involved with my friend wants to move their relationship forward. He says that he explained to her that he is not interested in being with her, but she can’t seem to except it. She feels that he will change his mine and they will be together.

People, pressuring someone into a relationship never work. It’s not going to make them change his mind, it ultimately comes off as annoying seems desperate. At some point we have to learn to accept rejection and move on.

For the young lady that is waiting on my friend; she is still waiting and using tactics to get him. While she is doing that he is moving on with his life. In the end it’s not finding a man, it’s about meeting someone who wants you as much as you want them.

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2 Responses to “Learning to Accept Rejection”

  1. On August 16, 2010 at 2:31 pm SmFry87 responded with... #

    Diva, at some point (many points) we all want something in life. When we are denied the opportunity to acquire such things (or in this case a person), we either accept it or we don’t. In my opinion, we do not accept rejection because we truly think we deserve and are capable of handling what is being withheld from us. Or, in many cases, we just want what we can’t have. When interacting with someone who may be interested in us, or vice versa, it is important to make our intentions known early and often. By doing this, we avoid misunderstandings and spare feelings. #overandout.

    -SmFry87

    • On August 16, 2010 at 9:17 pm jenndiva responded with... #

      That is a valid point and very true. Sometimes the best thing to do is be truthful and let people know what our intentions are.

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