Mind of a Diva

Why do we expect people to be able to read our minds without ever communicating our problem? We assume that the people we have around us should know our needs because of the relationships we have with them. Is it fair to get upset with our family and friends for not leaving up to our [...]

Diva are consistently looking to better themselves and gain knowledge on topics, including how to better themselves and their relationships. This week in our Divas Wanna Know series we are focusing on communication and commitment questions that Divas sent into us. So we asked our panel to give their insight and share their thoughts from [...]

The news is constantly reporting how bad the poor job market and economy are right now. For those that are looking for work the coverage can be discouraging, but we can’t let those stories keep us from pursuing a job or career. Instead we need to use those reports to be more creative in our [...]

Have you ever realized that discussing an issue with a guy compared to discussing the same issue women are two completely can turn out to be different conversations? With a guy they will listen then instantly try to solve the problem, where as with a woman she will go through everything involved. Why do men [...]

Some of us may know people who lie or embellish the truth to make themselves look good. A lie here and a lie there doesn’t seem like much, but at some point all of the lies catch up to a person. Once other people start to notice how much a person lies, it’s hard to [...]

I remember my parents telling me when I was little to treat people the way I would like to be treated. While I haven’t always lived up to this golden rule, I know this applies when especially when one is in the relationship. How difficult is it for a couple to treat one another right? [...]

As I have grown in the dating world I have come to realize that being friends with someone before becoming a couple makes things a lot easier. Taking that time to get to know one another without the pressure of being in a new relationship can make it a more enjoyable experience. After all, who [...]

A couple can’t have a genuine relationship when they are not able to trust one another. The individuals involved can’t focus on the relationship when they are trying to find out the truth. Is there a way to find out the truth so that one can enjoy their relationship? My friend started dating her boyfriend [...]

The expression that we wear on our face has so much power and some of us don’t even realize it . A frown, a scowl, or smile controls the opportunities we have and people who come our way. So, why is it that people choose not to smile? Not too long ago I tried to play match-maker with [...]

Today young men turn to Twitter, Facebook, and text messaging to court a young lady they have interest in.  Question,  whatever happened to the face to face date?  Whatever happened to actually going out and getting to know each other in person? Okay, so I understand that it’s convenient to shoot off a text or [...]