Mind of a Diva

A weeks ago my coworker and I had lunch together and she filled me in on the last news on her relationship. She has just started seeing a guy that she met through a mutual friend around the end of October and beginning of November. She’s fallen hard for this guy, everyone that knows her [...]

Several months ago one of our readers sent in a question to our Diva’s Wanna Know series to ask our panel if men look consciously or subconsciously for characteristics of their mothers in the women they date. After posing this question for the men to answer, it’s been on my mind if women do the [...]

One of my favorite sayings is this; we live our lives with two faces, the one that we want the world to see and the one that we hide. When it comes to dating, we hide the our other side in fear of rejection and how the other person will see us. So we control [...]

Does anyone know what the real definition of what the word ‘wifey’ really means? The term has been used in various ways, and while the meaning seems to be under debate I wonder if the reason is because we see this as a title. Many of us want to hold a special place or a [...]

We’ve made it another Wednesday and that means it’s time for more Diva’s Wanna Know. This week we’re adding to our Lost Post segment by sharing some more answers that didn’t get posted the first time around. Enjoy these great answers from our guy panel. Do you prefer women that wear their natural hair of [...]

A few months ago my friend gave me some great advice that I felt should be passed on because it really changed my perspective on handling communication within relationships. It’s funny how we view situations from the outside until we are in them ourselves. That’s when I know I need to get an outside opinion [...]

Yesterday I was hanging out with a new friend and we were talking about college, guys, and female friends. As we talked I found myself wondering why women find men that are taken worth pursuing. Should we be concerned about other women wanting the relationship or mate that we have? She told me about her [...]

It’s Wednesday and that means another edition of Diva’s Wanna Know. This series is all about real women getting their questions answered about whatever is on our minds. This week the guys are back to answer more of your questions. What are your fears about being in a romantic relationship and why? “I fear vulnerability [...]

Last weekend I started reading Steve Harvey’s book “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man” and one topic I found interesting was the concept that a man should be the provider. In book he writes that in a dating relationship we should expect our man to provide for us. So are we letting men [...]

There are times when being in a relationship can be too much, especially when times are rough. Sometimes a little space can give a person time to find a way to make things better. However, should we be offended or hurt by someone wanting that space? My friend and her high school sweetheart just broke [...]