Mind of a Diva

Life constantly has a series of occurrences that shape and determine our day, emotions, and strength. When we face a challenge our world changes and then we are stuck trying to fix things. The only problem is that if we spend too much time focused on the problem we could miss out on our solution. [...]

This morning I was reading an article about women that are in their twenties and what stood out is that the writer said that our twenties is the “me years.”  It never classified this period of my life as that, but looking back I can see how it. So are our twenties just about us [...]

The notion of being supportive of a friend or family member is not hard for many of us to comprehend. Someone in our lives needs us and we are there to talk, listen, and stand by them through their problem. While many of us understand what being supportive entails, why is it hard to apply [...]

Being in a relationship requires a couple to learn how to balance where their focus and attention needs to be placed. Sometimes that focus is on the relationship as a whole and other times it’s on the individual. However, how does one deal with not being the focus within the relationship? In a past relationship, [...]

At some point we all find ourselves in a position where we have become too comfortable in our surroundings. It happens our relationships, lifestyles, and even our jobs until we wake up and see that something has to change. Is there a way to avoid getting too comfortable? The thing that has really been rubbing me the wrong [...]

From the outside some people’s lives look so nice and easy because they have the job, house, or car. However, some people don’t realize all the work that goes into it. How many of us are willing to put in the work to make things happen? The other day I was talking to a friend [...]

Over the weekend I met with some friends for lunch to catch up and talk about our college days. While we were talking it dawned on my how fortunate I’ve been to gain the skills I have. So why are people not interested in learning to lead? In college  joined different organizations on campus to put myself out [...]

Not too long ago I wrote about my trouble with practicing patience and I’m slowly starting to find some answers. Even though I haven’t found a way to be patient all the time, I am starting to understand the principle. As hard as it is to be patient and there is a reason why time [...]

Patience is a virtue that I just can’t seem to master. I have tried and tried but nothing seems to happen. It seems to be beyond me. Why is it so hard to acquire patience? This week I have been waiting on some career related news to come. This will determine a lot of other things [...]

I know that I have not posted a lot of post this month compared to other months. For me, the month of July I have been focused on moving to the next level in my life. As I go through this process I’m starting to wonder at what point do things start moving? This month [...]