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The Option of Priority

The Option of Priority

The ongoing conversation amongst my friends lately has been about how people do what they want to do and feel is important. Every situation regardless if it’s a relationships, life choices, or work related falls into one of two categories; it’s either a priority or an option. So when it comes down to us being […]

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Too Old To Be Inexperienced?

Too Old To Be Inexperienced?

At what age should a person be experienced in sex, love, and relationships? Is there a set age in which a person should have fallen in love, given away their virginity, and suffered a great heartbreak? At what age are you too old to be inexperienced? In many cases be it through unspoken rights of […]

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The Case of the Frenemy

The Case of the Frenemy

Is it true that women just can’t get along? I truly adore my friendships. I have close friends that I consider my confidants and would trust them with my life. I also have a group acquaintances that I like to get together with and chat about the ups and downs of life, kids (those of […]

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Make Them Like Me

Make Them Like Me

The idea of making a lasting impression with someone makes me think of having to do a song and dance just to get a person to approve of us. This is the realization that I’ve most recently came to after going out of my way to form a bond with a friend of a friend. […]

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The Game of Making Friends

The Game of Making Friends

I’m now starting to see that interacting with people and trying to form friendships is almost like playing a game. With every move we have to decide how to react and if it’s worth chasing after a possible win or just taking a loss. In friendships we have to do the same and decide if […]

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Wanting Someone Else’s Man

Wanting Someone Else’s Man

Yesterday I was hanging out with a new friend and we were talking about college, guys, and female friends. As we talked I found myself wondering why women find men that are taken worth pursuing. Should we be concerned about other women wanting the relationship or mate that we have? She told me about her […]

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Once the Trust is Gone

Once the Trust is Gone

This morning my mind has been steadily thinking about the past, trust, and where to go from here. Every now and then an old friendship comes to my mind and makes me wonder what these thoughts mean. Once the trust is gone in a friendship, where can that relationship go? A couple of years ago […]

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A Mean Girl Mentality

A Mean Girl Mentality

The other day I was reading a women’s blog post about how reality television portrays interactions and friendships amongst women. The writer noted that these shows realistically demonstrate how women size-up, dismiss, and are standoffish towards women they’ve never met. That made me wonder, are we in a mean girl mindset when we meet women […]

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Determining What Is Loyal

Determining What Is Loyal

Every friendship requires some sense of loyalty amongst both people. We want to have people in our lives that will support us and stand by us when things are not going well. However, how far should our loyalty extend? An should someone use loyalty as a way to get others to fight their battles? A […]

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Someone that’s Real

The people that we shouldn’t have to worry about being real with is our true friends. In a healthy friendship people can freely discuss subjects and tell a person if they are headed for some sort of trouble. If we don’t have that freedom with someone we consider a friend, is their really a friendship? […]

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