Mind of a Diva

Yesterday I was hanging out with a new friend and we were talking about college, guys, and female friends. As we talked I found myself wondering why women find men that are taken worth pursuing. Should we be concerned about other women wanting the relationship or mate that we have? She told me about her [...]

This morning my mind has been steadily thinking about the past, trust, and where to go from here. Every now and then an old friendship comes to my mind and makes me wonder what these thoughts mean. Once the trust is gone in a friendship, where can that relationship go? A couple of years ago [...]

Some of us may know people who lie or embellish the truth to make themselves look good. A lie here and a lie there doesn’t seem like much, but at some point all of the lies catch up to a person. Once other people start to notice how much a person lies, it’s hard to [...]

It’s hard to reach out to someone and try to make amends when all a person get is the same result. They will try again and then go about it a different way, but nothing seems to work. How many times should someone extend the olive branch before they just give up? One of my [...]

Letting someone in, not just into one’s life but heart, is a task that is not easy to accomplish. Being venerable and giving someone access to one’s heart is scary and can make a person put up walls. So how do we know who we can let our walls down for? Allowing people to come into one’s life is [...]

As I have grown in the dating world I have come to realize that being friends with someone before becoming a couple makes things a lot easier. Taking that time to get to know one another without the pressure of being in a new relationship can make it a more enjoyable experience. After all, who [...]

A couple can’t have a genuine relationship when they are not able to trust one another. The individuals involved can’t focus on the relationship when they are trying to find out the truth. Is there a way to find out the truth so that one can enjoy their relationship? My friend started dating her boyfriend [...]

The basis for a solid relationship is communication, trust, and respect. Focusing on communication, the there has to be no holding back. While there is a time to be reserved, for a couple that time doesn’t exist. Why do people choose to stay quite? In a previous relationship I felt that there were things that I couldn’t [...]

No matter if it’s in one’s business or personal life, there are going to be difficult people to deal with. It’s not always easy handling it all, but there has to be a way. So how can one be at there best when someone is trying to get them to their worst? These past weeks have been a [...]

If I had to name one of my biggest struggles it would have to be dealing with my self-esteem and knowing who I am. For a while I dealt with this problem and I somehow found my way out and now I’m here. However, sometimes we all have to ask ourselves who am I? Recently [...]